Sunday, February 23, 2025

Bigass Weekend Wrap-Up: Fancy Friday in Bronze and Brocade; Safety-Pins and Tan Brunch; Birthday Party in the Wet Foliage

Welcome back, my friends! My weekend was far too short, and I'm eager to claim what's left of it, so let's get to this! I have a very Fancy Friday 'fit to share, plus my usual quirky brunch ensemble, and we went to Greg and Cat's Shared Birthday party, so I got my swank on.

Here's Friday's sparkly attire. No Stair Picture as we had another incident of People Sleeping Where They Shouldn't. It was resolved, all is well, but it's rather rattling. 
So let's put on our armour and face the damned world, shall we? Look at all this shine - I'm Armoured UP! 

  • Brocade blazer - Devil's Advocate, thrifted; purchased here for $28.95
  • T-shirt - Denver Hayes, thrifted; first seen here in May 2024 with my Peacock Jacket
  • Skirt - Ralph Lauren, consignment; last worn here in November 2024 with teal and cream
  • Shoes - Vogettes Pina, Fluevog; first seen here in January with beetle blues
  • Sleeveless coat (below) - Only, thrifted; last worn here a week ago

My colleagues loved this outfit, especially when I twirled for them, as the skirt is ultra-swooshy (Swoosh Factor 9).
I showed off the blazer. "How can you tell it's a men's blazer?" my coworkers asked. 

"Because it has FIVE pockets! Including two inside." Can you imagine?
I did a simple white tee underneath to let the jacket shine. My one small area of restraint, heh heh. 

Blurry, but still discernable. 
I rolled the blazer's cuffs while at work to show off my bracelets, but pulled them down for walking to and from work. 

Outerwear! It was grey and dry on the way to work, but rained all the way home.
I liked how my skirt billowed out from under the coat.

Accoutrements: 
Should have worn a fedora, or done the Movie Star Wrap to keep my hair dry, but I didn't care that much. 

  • Toque - gift from Tammy
  • Brooch - Monet, vintage 80s, thrifted
  • Silk scarf - Forele, vintage 60s, consignment
  • Leather gloves - Roeckl, consignment

The stuff: 
I considered doing sneakers with the outfit, but my urge to be a Soft Goth won out. Spikes! These shoes are like wearing slippers with slightly more support. 

Snaky bling: 
I forgot to pick out rings, but I would have worn my Wendy Brandes lapis lazuli and Fulvia Ring, an aquamarine stone, to match the jacket. 

  • Metal/glass flower brooch - vintage 60s, Mom's
  • Leather heart brooch - Smoking Lily
  • Leather/chains cuff - Jenny Bird, consignment
  • Crystal chain bracelet - thrifted
  • Spiral snake bracelet - Whiting & Davis, vintage 70s, vintage fair
  • Snake necklace/belt - vintage 80s, vintage expo
  • Earrings - Biko, consignment

I layered the thinner link bracelet with the bunch-o-chains one. 

When I get home from work, I have a routine: I take the pictures of the Stuff/Bling, and deal with my work outfit, putting things away or in the laundry. Vizzini always begs to be picked up while I'm doing this - he climbs my leg and digs his claws in if I don't pick him up right away (this has caused some yelling and laddered tights).
"You know you love it."

I have to get my accessories off quickly as the little monster always dives for whatever he can reach and chomps on it. 

He's lunging for the camera cord here. I can barely contain him! 
"Entertain me!"

Okay, down you go, buddy. 

After a fun evening of kicking L's arse at board games, we woke to grey skies and headed to John's Place to meet up with Nick for brunch. 
Let's see, what shall I wear? I built the outfit around the new-to-me bone bangle that I picked up yesterday. 

  • Chain and medallion top - no label, thrifted; last seen here in December 2024 under my tabard
  • Leather tee - Danier, thrifted; last worn here in October 2024 with big pink plaid pants
  • Skirt - Rena Rowan, vintage 90s, thrifted; last seen here in October 2023(!) with Christmas boots (I sold them recently)
  • Leather boots - Matisse, consignment; last worn here with the Jedi dress in January (gone to Limbo)
  • Buffalo leather coat (below) - Gianfranco Ferre, Spring 2003, consignment; last seen here in March 2024 with leopard and peach

I had a jacket in mind to wear with the outfit, so I selected clothes that would work with that.
My chain and medallions top is a warm layer under the leather tee. 

See? There's the cuff.
The leopard skirt is plush with peaks and waves in it, like real fur. It's a lovely tactile thing to wear. 

The folks at John's were very impressed with all the tones of tan. 
I don't do boring neutrals! 

But here's the star of the show - my 2003 runway safety-pin jacket by chi-chi designer Gianfranco Ferre. I even found the Vogue link (here) and the slide of this jacket and matching skirt here.
I've had this jacket for six years now and have worn it 10 times.

It's a little snug in the front to zip up (it's always been tight), but I'm keeping it. 
Good enough! 

A bajillion custom brass safety pins. I spotted Gianfranco Ferre jackets from his 2002-2003 collections online for over $2,000-5,000! 
The back is held together by the safety pins. 

Ready to brunch and grocery shop. 
Gloves, a silk scarf and a handmade locally leather clutch. 

Purse! I bought this many years ago with Winesday Women gift money.
I didn't need the scarf, and ended up tying it to the purse's wrist strap. 

Accoutrements: 
A field of galloping horses, for your pleasure. 

  • Leather purse - Fiveleft
  • Silk scarf - France, vintage 60s, vintage fair
  • Leather/fur gloves - thrifted

The stuff: 
Old favourite boots - I've worn these so much! 

Brassy bling: 
It warms me to wear this brass/glass necklace and brass/wood earrings now that Yvonne and Randall have borrowed and worn them. It makes me feel like my friends are with me. Aw! 

  • Bone/brass/stone cuff - consignment; purchased here for $35.00
  • Agate bangle - consignment
  • Brass/glass necklace and ring - Raphael of Canada, vintage 70s, consignment
  • Brass Brutalist ring - vintage 70s, vintage mall
  • Bronze ring - P. Sarpaneva, vintage 70s, vintage expo
  • Brass/wood earrings - LA Express, c. 1994

I had a Five Minute Shop at the Beacon Avenue Thrift Shop next door and spotted one item that had to come with me. 
How could I miss it? 

I love this vibrant yellow, and was attracted to the giant pleated bell cuffs.
Not just a ruffle but sculped into a bell. Very cool. 

To my surprise it's 100% cotton. 
And made in Spain! You don't see that very often. 

I was shocked to see it's by Zara Woman. I admired the nicely finished neckline.
I saw it in black and red online as well as yellow. It was $15.00.

Saturday night was a Birthday Party for our dear pals Greg and Cat. I've been saving this outfit for a special occasion, and in case you were wondering, this was just a house party, and yes, I'm ridiculously overdressed. My friends expect nothing less! 
I got dressed early and mucked about with the outfit, trying different shoe and belt and accessory options. 

  • Turtleneck sweater - Contemporaine, thrifted; last seen here in November 2024, layered under a sequined cardi
  • Dress - Ted Baker, thrifted; purchased here for $34.95
  • Shoes - Summertime Moonbeams, Fluevog, consignment; last worn here in January with coat-dress armour
  • Fringy kimono (below) - Forever 21, thrifted; first seen here in December 2024 with black and tweed

I have been layering tops under strapless dresses almost since I started my blog in 2008 - the painting by Megan Mae behind my head (the top one, first printed and put up here on NYE 2011), is of me in my old Club Monaco grey wool bubble-hem strapless dress 14 years ago. I wore that dress to death! 
So the idea of layering a top under a strapless dress was nothing new, just pulling out an oldie from my bag of tricks. Instead of bare skin, I much preferred a sleeveless turtleneck to show off my ink.

My friends loved this dress and its optic watery landscape print. It's a lot of damp-looking foliage, perfect for this time of year.
They particularly liked how the necklace framed the little scoop in the front. 

I also demonstrated that I have two belts on! The chain belt is hiding the obi's front knot. Belting pulled the length up slightly, plus I am not a fan of high Empire waists. 
My old black leather obi has been with me - I found the day I bought it, here - since July 2012, when I bought it for $14.00! Wow, that's a good price.

I added my burgundy fringed robe as a topper in case I got cold at Greg and Rosanna's.
It ended up so warm, we needed to open windows, so I just wore it as my outerwear. 

I packed some essentials in an old sequined purse. 
It's from when Victoria had an Accessorize store in Mayfair Mall (old post from 2010 here - I went to the theatre with Mom and the nieces! - where I'm carrying it ).

My outerwear consisted of a giant hat and a furry scarf.
Plus long plummy leather gloves. 

Accoutrements: 
We cabbed there with Nick and back home with him plus Cat. It rained a little, but we are in double-digits, a true Victoria winter. 

  • Hat - M&S, consignment, Powell River
  • Fur scarf - thrifted
  • Leather gloves - Bijenkorf Accessoires, consignment
  • Purse - Accessorize, c. 2006

The stuff: 
I still had to wear heels to keep the dress from dragging on the ground - these are the kindest to my feet. Even so, my feet were tired on Sunday! 

  • Crystal belt - Zara, consignment
  • Leather obi - consignment

Spiky bling: 
The 3-way convertible necklace intrigued partygoers - they were boggled when I told them it was only $3.95 in the thrift store last June.

  • Black Lucite/crystal bangle - Alexis Bittar, consignment, Sidney
  • Gold/Lucite hinged bangle/earrings - Alexis Bittar, consignment, gift from L
  • Necklace - Stella & Dot, thrifted
  • Silver/aquamarine Fulvia Ring - Wendy Brandes
  • Silver/obsidian ring - consignment
  • Silver/crystal ring - Soul Flower

After doing my pictures, I clipped my skirt up,  pulled on a wooly housedress, and kept my outfit on. I had a short nap, then hung out with L until it was time to go. 
"So, I hear you're going out."

He's cruising to get his evening treats early. 
"Hey, Woman, how about now?"

That's a big no. He got them when we arrived home at 12:30pm. He was rather surly about it! 
"It was worth a shot."


And now, my friends, I'm off to enjoy the waning hours of the weekend. I hope you enjoyed the tales of adventures! Thanks so much for stopping by! 

16 comments:

  1. We played board games too last Saturday night with friends. Love that so much! That dress has a beautiful print! I had a tunic once with such a print and it always reminded me of nature reserves in the UK. I hope your Sunday was as good too and wish you a good start of the week@

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    1. Nice, that's my favourite thing to do with friends, Nancy! Thank you so much - yes, it's very much a "nature preserve" print.

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  2. The Devil's Advocate blazer looks brilliant with the toffee wrapper skirt! There's a saying here, Ladies on the left, which reminds anyone who is bothered by such things on which side the buttons should be on a garment!
    The party outfit is super elegant on you and that fabulous suede jacket you wore for your brunch date rocks (fastening stuff is overrated!)
    Loving the pictures of you and Vizzini!

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    1. Thanks so much, Vix! I liked wearing it - ha, that is a good saying to remind me about the buttons!
      I agree, pshaw to fastening! I can't let it go because of a mere zipper.
      Vizz is so sweet and affectionate these days.

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  3. Oh no about the People Sleeping Where They Shouldn't, that's absolutely horrible! No wonder you needed your armour! That's a fabulous outfit, by the way, and so is Saturday's, but Saturday night's Birthday Party one is a triumph and thus my favourite! xxx

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    1. It's very stressful - armour was definitely needed. I loved my party outfit - a success! Thank you, Ann!

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  4. What a great little peek into the life of Vizzini!

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    1. He's a creature of habit, Charlotte! Thanks for being here!

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  5. Your first and last outfits are my favorite.. you are a master stylist!

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  6. Thanks to your substack for the sneak peak at this post’s outfits as I managed to read in reverse order this morning, catching up by moving backwards. ;-) Continuing that theme, I’ll comment on outfits in reverse order!

    The birthday party outfit is pure elegance; it’s as if the dress and sleeveless black turtleneck were part of a set that came together. Every last piece of your outerwear simply ups the ante on elegance! And your accessories are the decorations on the perfectly iced cake. :-)

    The yellow cotton bell-sleeved top is a beauty and on my long list of items that I look forward to seeing you style. The vibrancy of the color, the fun of the sleeves and the softness of cotton all combine to say spring is around the corner!

    And then there is your brunch outfit, on a par with the perfectness of your birthday party outfit. I like the colors and patterns, and while the Gianfranco Ferre jacket is not my personal taste, it is nonetheless a fabulous piece that caps a wonderful outfit.

    I know, there’s no comment on your Friday outfit. It’s fine but compared to the other two outfits of the weekend I couldn’t come up with a much to say other than the sheen and swirl of the skirt are definitely a fun combination.
    Next month brings official Spring! Cheers, Laurie

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    1. Ha! You got a sneak peak via my Substack, Laurie!
      Thank you so much. I couldn't have matched a better top with the dress - I would also do a white shirt, or a colourful turtleneck, but I like how it is. Ha, I'm a cake!
      I'm excited about the yellow top, and have plans for layering it for an upcoming event.
      I know "badass" isn't so much in your wheelhouse, ha ha, it's okay. :)
      Totally cool - it's a work outfit, and those tend to be less exciting.
      Thank you for the wonderful comments, Laurie! <3

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  7. Well I know who would have been the absolute funkiest person at the grocery store. What an inspiration you are for shopping my own closet and combining pieces Sheila……thankyou as always! With love and appreciation.

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    1. Hee, it was me, Leanne! Aw, you are so sweet! Thank you!

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  8. Vizzini is so cute. I'm sure you can forgive a few ruined fair of tights. I feed a neighbour's cat and he is a climber too. As soon as he hears my footsteps from any direction, he appears from somewhere and climbs up!
    It seems like you had a lovely weekend.

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    1. Eh, I don't like having to buy tights retail - they are over $20! - so I've learned to head him off when he starts climbing. Aw, that's so cute!

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