My 2009 Fashion Resolution - A Recap!

My fashion resolution in 2009 was inspired by Jane at WorkThatWardrobe (now at The Small Fabric of My Life). Jane went an entire year without spending any money at all on clothing. I didn't want to forego spending altogether, but I admired her restraint and I love a challenge so I decided:

I will not be buying any new clothes or shoes.
- Consignment or thrift clothes and shoes will be permitted, as will clothing acquired by swap or gifts.
- Accessories, underwear, hosiery, workout clothing will not apply.
- The "One In, One Out" rule is in effect. If a new piece of clothing or pair of shoes is acquired, an existing piece of equal "weight" (eg. a dress for a dress, a top for a top, NOT a dress for a pair of socks) will have to go.

And now, as 2009 is over, I'm done! Such a major thing completed, over the course of an entire year! Of course, this demands examination, rumination and reflection.

How did it go?
Well, actually, it was not that bad! I already shopped in consignment stores to supplement my new clothes shopping. I had a few favourite stores and expanded my horizons by adding some new consignment shops and by visiting thrift stores more often. I also explored consignment stores in both Seattle, Vancouver and my husband's hometown when we traveled.

I enjoy taking my time when I shop - and I do realize that's a luxury that not everyone has - and I like to browse the racks, going through each item and seeking out the gems. I truly love the Thrill of the Hunt!

What was the best part of this challenge?
I got so many unique items, things that I would never have found if I'd stuck to my regular mall stores, department stores or boutique stores. Don't get me wrong, I found unique items before, but the chances of seeing someone wearing the fabulous items I picked up second hand was nil. I like that - I like having things no one else does.

I also got much higher-quality items than I ever would have bought new. I added a ton of cashmere, wool, silk and high-end brand vintage and designer items. The prices on these items were easily between 10 and 25% of the cost of the items new (and in some cases, even lower than that), and many of the items that I bought had either never been worn or barely worn.

I also really liked supporting my local shopkeepers and charities. Women in Need, St. Vincent de Paul, Salvation Army - it felt good to know that my shopping dollar was going to local people and not to big corporations. I also liked that I was not contributing to the mass production of new clothing (mostly made in China). It's amazing how many items are made in Canada, when you start looking, particularly vintage clothing items.

What was the worst part of this challenge?
The worst part was finding basics. I thought I had a good collection of basics in my wardrobe, but I had a tough time finding good quality t-shirts, camisoles, dress pants and layering pieces.

I really missed being able to buy new party dresses! Women get rid of old ugly dresses, but they sure like to hang onto pretty party dresses! I also had major shoe withdrawal - it's very hard to find current shoe styles second-hand...and oh, there were some lovely styles in the stores this past year!

Finding sizes is also a real challenge. Often, I saw gorgeous items that were just too big or too small. That's how it goes, though; if they didn't fit, I just moved on.

Did you save money doing this challenge?
No! I think I probably spent about the same - I have always been a bargain hunter. A 3-5 hour shop still cost me between $200 (if I had a good day) and $20 (not such a good day). The difference, however, is that the quality of the items I bought was much higher.

I shop about every two weeks (timed with my paycheque, usually). That didn't change.

How was the "One In, One Out" rule?
Seriously, this was the most valuable thing that I got from this challenge. I was a lot more picky and discerning about the things I actually bought with the threat of "Which skirt/top/dress are you willing to give up for this skirt/top/dress?" hanging over me.

I was most surprised at how quickly my mind-set changed about shopping, knowing that I would have to get rid of things I had in my closet. Haven't worn that shirt in 6 months? Out. Never liked how that dress fit? Out. That colour never quite looked good on me? Out. I became ruthless, whereas before I had been sentimental about pieces or kept them even if they weren't quite right.

I highly recommend trying this if you're a compulsive shopper or you have an overstuffed wardrobe full of clothes you haven't worn in a long time. I really believe that a wardrobe can be completely functional and full of clothes that you actually want, love and wear!

What did you do with all the "Out" stuff?
I happily bundled up my rejects and took them to my local consignment store (she actually buys stuff outright and gives me credit for more shopping!) or gave them to friends. Anything that was leftover got donated to some of the charities whose shops I patronized. The circle is complete.

Did you do more swaps or get more gifts as a result of this challenge?
I did one swap put on by an outside organization, which was disappointing in the end (it wasn't very well organized). I did a bunch of informal swaps with my girlfriends ("I'm bringing a bag of clothes to Book Club!"), which yielded much better booty - and I found out that my girlfriend Caro, who has a totally different body type than me, actually has the same measurements as me! We are total clothes twins.

I did hint for money as gifts (which I counted as a gift that could be used towards clothing/shoe purchases) from relatives - thank you, mother-in-law and grandma-in-law! L bought me Fluevogs and my mother-in-law also bought me a pair of shoes. Mom bought me lots of awesome accessories on her travels!

Did you buy more accessories, hosiery, underwear and workout clothes, since those were exempt from the challenge?
I definitely stepped up my game in the hosiery department (hello, tights!), and bought more belts, scarves and jewelry (many of those were second hand). I've never been an underwear junkie, so that stayed about the same. I buy workout clothes when I need them. Many of the new workout pieces I got this year were also consignment, brands that would be out of my price range if they were new, like my North Face waterproof thermal jacket that I found for $40 (they start at $200 new).

Knowing I could go have a wee shop in a boutique or department store in the costume jewelry or hosiery/belt section made this challenge easier.

What impact - if any - did this challenge have on your personal style?
This actually had a huge impact on my personal style! I have really been able to focus on what looks good on me as opposed to what is "in style" at the moment.

I've discovered and reaffirmed my favourite looks that suit my body and my personality the best, and I'm able to shop with better goals in mind. I love the "sexy secretary" (high-waisted pencil skirts, cropped/fitted cardigans, sexy shoes), the "retro goddess" (long layers, mixed patterns and textures), the "rocker chick" (graphic tees layered, bold patterns, funky accessories), the "funky casual" (layers, bold colour mixes and fun accessories) and "granny chic" (vintage pieces mixed with more modern looks, unexpected accessories).

What advice would you give to anyone looking to try a second-hand clothes/shoes only ban?
Give yourself time to shop. It takes a lot of patience to hunt through thrift stores and through consignment stores (these are a bit easier, since they are often sorted by size as well as type of item).

Research what's available in your town, and regularly visit the stores that have the clothing that suits you best. I went to one or two stores much more than others, because they always had a lot of brands that fit me well (I like Club Monaco, Mexx, Esprit, Banana Republic and a few others). Others I only visited every couple of months (too expensive, ratty selection, funny smell, etc.). I only did big thrift stores a couple of times when I had the time to really go through the racks.

Try things on! Don't rely on size numbers, because even clothes that are only a few years old will be sized differently than current sizing. Brands like Gap, Club Monaco or Banana Republic that have been around for years have drastically changed their sizing over time. A size 10 BR from 10-15 years ago is more like a size 6 now.

Also, vintage clothing is totally unreliable for sizing (women wore a lot of suck-you-in undergarments then). When you read about Marilyn Monroe being up to a size 16, that's not equivalent to today's sizes! When I try on a size 14 dress from the 50s, I can barely squeeze into it (I currently wear a size 2 or 4 in the Gap, a size 6 Banana Republic or Esprit, and up to a 10 in various other brands). I wear a size 10 in 70s/80s sizing. And Small, Medium and Large cover a huge range!

Examine clothing carefully. Check seams for holes, check all sweaters for moth holes and pilling, look for stains (armpits, front of garments), make sure all buttons are present. Really old stains don't come out, and if you're not handy with a needle and thread, or don't do any sewing, that new piece is just going to sit there in your closet. Don't waste your money.

Shop for specific items. You'll be overwhelmed if you go into a big store without a game plan. I always look first at shoes, dresses, and skirts, then check out sweaters and blouses if I have time. I rarely look for pants (I loathe going through racks of jeans) or t-shirts. In small stores, I go through everything except jeans.

Are you going to continue any of the challenge rules?
Well, yes and no.

I'm going to continue to shop in consignment and thrift stores, for sure, and will probably shop in them more than I did pre-challenge.

This is funny: I went shopping on January 2nd, at the mall and my old favourite boutiques, thinking I was going to get all kinds of new things. What did I end up with? A new pair of pants (thank you, Esprit store, for always fitting me just right!), a new camisole, a bunch of tights... and a pair of brand-new leather boots from one of my regular consignment stores ($70, never worn) and a gorgeous brown ultra-suede skirt in a thrift store for $10! L was very surprised - he thought I'd buy tons of January sales items - but I really saw very little that I wanted, especially when I considered that most of the time I could find similar, higher quality items for less money in consignment/thrift stores.

I'm definitely going to keep weeding out my closet when I buy new items, but I'm not going to be as strict on the "One In, One Out" rule. I really want to have a few more jackets, skirts and dresses!

I'm also going to continue to sell off my "out" clothes, and give away and swap with my friends.

However, I am going to go back to cruising my favourite boutiques, mall stores and department stores for sale items and basics. I've missed having a stock of camisoles in the season's colours, basic trousers, jeans, tees for layering and good quality new shoes.

Let's get down to business. What did you buy?
I actually kept track of what went "In" and "Out" for the whole year (on sticky notes in my closet). This wasn't always even, because I periodically went through my closet and weeded out things I was willing to give up. I ended up with "credits" in some categories, like shoes, but only once did I have more "In" than "Out".

Jackets (non-outerwear):

• 12 in, 12 out
• Total in closet: 27 jackets.

It got really hard to get rid of jackets, since I love them and find it hard to give them up, even ones I haven't worn in a while. I finally had to stop looking at jackets for a few months.

Pants:

• 6 in, 7 out
• Total in closet/dresser: about 14 pairs (there might be a pair of jeans in the wash).

This includes jeans, cords and dress pants. Not much excitement there.

Dresses:

• 15 in, 15 out
• Total in closet: 44

This was so hard - I really didn't want to give up very many dresses! This includes my long gowns as well as sundresses, work dresses and fancy party dresses.

Skirts:

• 22 in, 20 out
• Total in closet: 43

This is the one time I ended up with more in than out, and that only happened in the last week, when I was pretty much ready for the freakin' challenge to be over! Since I rarely wear pants, skirts are my go-to items, and I prefer to have a large collection of styles, colours, patterns, fabrics and lengths. The total number includes long skirts.

Tops:

• 20 in, 20 out
• Total in closet/dresser: 63

Being gifted in the boobular region, I have a tough time finding tops that fit me. I had a lot of junky t-shirts and cheap fabric tops that I'd bought after I lost weight. It was a pleasure replacing those with good quality work tops and funky rocker-inspired t-shirts. 62 tops seems like a lot, but that includes an even proportion of camisoles, t-shirts and blouses/shirts (about 20 of each).

Sweaters:

• 16 in, 16 out
• Total in closet: 33

I got rid of nearly all of my chunky, misshapen knits, and invested in better quality wool, cashmere and blends. 16 of my sweaters are now either 100% cashmere, 100% wool or a blend of both of those. Instead of looking bulky to stay warm, my sweaters are thinner and warmer (cashmere does NOT itch, and wool is much less itchy if you look for fine Merino wool). I also bought a lot more cardigans!

Vests:

• 1 in, 1 out
• Total in closet: 6

I'm not a huge vest person. Two of the 6 are sweater/pullover vests.

Shoes:

• 29 in, 29 out
• Total in closet: I can't be bothered to count since that would mean cleaning out my closet (and frankly, this post is taking a LONG time), but I think there are about 73 pairs in there.

That includes boots, but doesn't include my casual shoes (runners, Vans) or my workout shoes. Although I griped about the lack of shoes in consignment stores, I obviously managed to find some! 8 of those pairs were gifts (gift certificate, gift money or purchased for me by others).

What are your favourite second-hand items you bought this year?
Wow, hard to chose! Here are some links for each of the above categories for my favourite three things.

Jackets: the creamy-white Club Monaco tux jacket, brown patterned wool Lux jacket, Bebe snakeskin jacket

Pants: Seven7 jeans from Caro, high-waisted Parasucco jeans, Club Monaco pinstriped shorts

Dresses: yellow eyelet halter dress, grey suede Danier Leather dress, Kitchen Orange black dress (only worn once! I need to wear that again)

Skirts: Odd Molly silk floral skirt, vintage Alfred Sung green shiny lace skirt, long purple silk Smoking Lily skirt with silk-screened chairs (another item I've only worn once)

Tops: Zara asymmetrical silk blouse, floral silk chiffon Kaliko blouse, Majestic striped cashmere long-sleeved tee

Sweaters: Express black boyfriend cardigan, black "storks" Lucky Brand cardigan, green Kersh cardigan

Vests: I only got one, and it's this brown Le Chateau sweater vest from Ruth.

Shoes: the Qupid black/taupe pumps, the Friis Company purple suede peep-toes, the Hilary Radley greeny-grey pumps (I'm not including any of the new shoes I just got, 'cause I haven't had a chance to wear them yet).

Boots: the yellow Aldo boots (of course!), the Fluevog "Blind Faith Hi Rebecca" boots, the Indigo by Clark's lace-up casual boots

What will you take away from this year-long exercise?
I definitely valued the growth in my personal style and creativity that came with having a limited number of stores and clothes to choose from. Limiting myself forced me to evaluate my closet and really think about my outfits and how to combine them in new ways. I feel that my style quotient has grown, and that my outfits more accurately reflect my personality.

I also learned that I don't have to have that new "of the moment" piece in order to make a modern outfit. New (or new-to-me) accessories helped, as did looking for that trendy piece in a vintage or gently worn item (boyfriend jackets have been in and out of style several times over the last 20 years, for example). I was really shocked by how many recent trends I was able to find in second-hand stores!

Lastly, I actually really enjoyed this challenge, despite my grouching about it periodically to anyone who would listen. It opened my eyes to the full potential of fashion, which is to express your true self, not to follow what's "in". By shopping consignment and thrift, I've had such a wide array of choices in fabric, pattern, cut, style and quality to choose from, much, much more than you can find in any mall store, department store or boutique.

Anyway, I hope you enjoyed this recap! Here's to a new year of fashion fun!

New Shoes! Another Confession! Push-ups Work!

This is a very busy entry. Ah, such is life.

I've been mulling over what to wear with my new shoes. I went with yellow.
My favourite mustard cardi - soon to be set aside for warmer sweaters - and my black polka dot skirt (the dots are really small).

The shoes are by Friis Company, from Denmark. They're purple! They're suede!

The shape is very 50s-looking to me, and the peep-toe is nice and small. They were were also very comfortable and did not rub a bit all day. It is worth it to spend money on good quality shoes.

Inigo doesn't care about shoes unless he is digging in them.

That is what a fat cat looks like when he's trying to get up.

And this is what my fabulous shoes look like:

Ah! They are so lovely and the suede is so soft. It says "A bit of Luxury for Every Day". You have to read their blurb - "the triviality of everyday" is such a great phrase.

I made the necklace years ago out of beads that were given to me by my mom - I think they belonged to my great-grandmother? Not sure. Mom, email me and tell me. The purple glass beads are the old ones - there is one oval one and the rest are triangles. I should remake this - the little bronze beads are tarnishing.

Okay, the confession. Just like with the birthday money that I got, I had to top up the gift certificate amount by $15.00 (the shoes were $165.00). I feel it was justified. And I'm still not off the wagon...I will still adhere to my goal.

And finally, the push-ups that I started doing last week - I did keep on doing them. I probably do about 60 push-ups a day, minimum. It's so much easier doing 10 easy ones at a time!

My biceps:

Look out, Sarah Connor! Still looking a little flabby underneath but I do have loose skin from losing weight, so I'm probably stuck with my "buh-byes," ha!

My triceps:

I'm pointing at a muscle that I can see (only me?).

I was stiff the next day after my initial day of push-ups, especially across my chest and in my triceps. Ruth suggested I do some triceps dips (using the arms of my office chair), which helped get past that stiffness. I definitely feel that my back and shoulders are stronger - and it's making me stand up straighter.

Cardigan (Jacob), cami (Esprit), skirt (Precis Petites), shoes (Friis Company), belt (Plum), necklace (mix of vintage and new), earrings (don't remember).

Casual Friday - A Whole Lotta Dark...and a Confession

Some casual Fridays, I just don't feel like weaing jeans, plus I planned to go shopping tonight and spend my birthday money, so I needed stuff I could slip on and off easily.
I'm sorry it's hard to see but the cashmere sweater is dark purple (the centre light in the den is burned out and I haven't gotten around to replacing it). This is my black tiered flounced skirt.

I wore my cropped jean jacket over this outfit all day:

Loaded up with my gloves and a velvet scarf for outdoor walking.

The stuff:

The purple is not quite THAT bright - stupid flash. Wearing the Shi Studios belt again. The brooch was on the jean jacket pocket flap.

Okay...my confession. I spent $13 tonight in violation of my "no new clothes or shoes" shopping ban (see the sidebar for my self-imposed restrictions and click the title for the reasons behind it).

I got $120 from my relatives for my birthday, and after discussion with L on the ins and outs and the rules and whatfors, it was agreed that the money, as a gift, could be spent on "banned" items. Specifically, we're having a party tomorrow night (yay! October birthdays rule!), and I wanted a new dress. For you see, women do not consign their party dresses. Sundresses: yes. Work dresses: yes. Pretty party dresses: no. Every woman I asked admitted to having dresses in her closet that were 5 to 15 years old, "Just in case I need a fancy dress."

So I headed off to the mall in search of a dress. And I found one! It was on 40% off or I wouldn't have been able to afford it - it ended up being $83. Then while shopping for some accessories for it (found), I saw The Skirt. Oh, so pretty...but $50 on sale. Yup, that's $133...I hemmed and hawed for about 20 minutes. I put it back. I grabbed it again. Then I thought, "I won't tell! No one will know."

But I'd know. I have not spent a single penny from January 1st to now on brand new clothes or shoes - it's all been swap, consignment, thrift or gifts. And I don't intend to fall off the wagon - I'm going right back to my challenge. And I will do it.

So please don't condemn me. I'm human...and when you see this dress and this skirt, I hope you'll understand.

Jacket (Ann Taylor Loft), sweater (Daniel Bishop, consignment), skirt (Club Monaco, consignment), boots (Expressions), belt (Shi Studio), assorted jewelry.

Wardrobe Challenge - 1 Skirt, 3 Ways - Day #3

Day 3 of the Skirt Challenge and I am loving it! In fact, I plan to carry on and wear this skirt right through to Friday (so that I can get a Casual Friday in there)!

Today's outfit:
My office-mate Bonnie gave me a pair of her earrings that belonged to her mom (aw! thank you so much, Bonnie! I wish you'd been there today to see it in person), so I built the outfit around them. Yellow cardi (nice and Spring-y), green cami, picking up more green in the net tights and shoes, and then the skinny brown belt to tie it all together.

I would have gone with a slight thicker belt next time (if I owned one) but otherwise, I liked this outfit.

A shot of the tights - they are a mossy green. The ribbon trim on the shoes is also a mossy green. Sorry all my shots are a little blurry...I was up rather late last night.
The fab shoes, and the accessories:

The earrings look 80s era to me. The bracelet is my mom's, liberated from her jewelry box back in about 1984 (I remember wearing it to high school).

The brooch - yes, that is a shovel - has been mine even longer. It's Mom's as well, but I got it when I was about 12 years old. I had this striped tunic top (very 70s) with a low slash neckline - this is in the Days Before Camisoles - and I was very self-conscious about my boobs, so Mom gave me this pin to hold the neckline closed. Honestly, I don't think I have worn this in 30 years.

Off to aikido!

Cardigan (no label, consignment), cami (Esprit), skirt (Suzy Shier), belt (Bianca Nygard), hose (don't recall), shoes (Hale Bob), earrings (gift from Bonnie), bracelet & pin (Mom's, 60s/70s vintage). Is it just me, or is anyone else freaked out that 60s & 70s are now vintage??

Wardrobe Challenge - 1 Skirt, 3 Ways - Day #1

I do love a challenge! This is Jane of Workthatwardrobe's latest challenge: to wear one skirt three different ways. I didn't see her post about the 2 week span until this morning, and I'd already gone and planned all three outfits last night...so I will be doing all three this week!

I'm going with my current favourite skirt: the Heather skirt (named after my generous co-worker who gave it to me, bless her heart). Reason: it's a neutral (brown with a thin black pencil stripe and fine texture) and it's a classic shape (pencil skirt).

Easy to match stuff with it:
That pose makes it look like I have no bum. Ha! Oh well.

I wanted to play up the black pinstripe in the skirt and mix black and brown, then pop them both with a bright colour: blue. Add a funky neckace, brown fishnets and my fab Fluevog Listen Up! Ivanna shoes, and I'm ready to go.

The stuff:

I felt very professional yet still chic and a bit edgy for work.

Suit jacket (Max Studio), top (Oxmo), skirt (Suzy Shier, gift from Heather), belt (Bianca Nygard), shoes (Fluevogs), necklace (Plum), crystal stud earrings).