L and his brother had a goal to help Louise clean out her apartment of all her decades of accumulation. Her dementia is progressing and less clutter is easier on her, but while I was along for emotional support, but this was also my vacation time, so I indulged in a little boost to the local economy and had a wee shop while I was there.
But first up, my packing. Although I'm a maximalist, my inclinations are much more minimalist when I plan for a 3-day trip, and I've gotten it down to an art. I opted not to bring a jacket and instead did this thick velour vintage hoodie, handy for a burst of cheery colour and a set of pockets. I've even got a hood if it rains.
The nylon cargo skirt has an elasticated hem and wide waistband, with sporty corded/drawstring elements, plus those ginormous pockets. I wore both of these items all day, every day, as my outer layers.
I chose to wear three different graphic tops: a tee, a print and a mesh optic top.
I also wore the same shoes all day, every day (I wore these same ones last August in a completely different mix of outfits, here). I used to bring a fancy element and shoes, but have learned that PR is just not that dressy. Our evening family dinner is a very casual affair, and I already stand out like a peacock there. Plus I like the extra room in my backpack for carrying home my treasures found shopping.
- Sneakers - L'intervalle, consignment; last worn here (3rd outfit, way down) in April for a shop
In addition, I picked out underwear, three pairs of socks and my wee sporty shorts.
And jewelry.
I wore the lightning bolt earrings on Friday, the blue glass earrings on Sat/Sun. - Leather cuff - Guess, thrifted
- Plastic cuff/ring - Italian, vintage 60s, vintage mall
- Lapis lazuli ring - Wendy Brandes
- Balsa wood earrings - consignment, Sidney
- Glass earrings - local
I also wore a different Fluevog pin every day on my hoodie.
And carried my white purse - lots of pockets for camera, phone and even my paperback book, for ferry reading.
This mix of things worked perfectly - I wouldn't have changed anything.
- Purse - Roots 73, thrifted
Friday's outfit.
Spent sitting in a car, sitting on the ferry, lots of not moving around. Lots of bright Colour as Armour!
The little orange socks were annoying - they wanted to creep down to my toes. I'd had a feeling this would happen, so wore them on the day I walked the least.
The little orange socks were annoying - they wanted to creep down to my toes. I'd had a feeling this would happen, so wore them on the day I walked the least.
Incognito and ready to go.
This is how most people saw me.
Ready to go, with my awesome guy, L. Thank you for doing all of the driving! (I don't have a license).
It's always fun to zoom off in our Jag convertible (its name is Vlad). More adventures!However, after weeks of lovely weather, we are back to rain.
On a busy Friday in August, this could be the recipe for a road accident - slippery roads, tourists, angry drivers...
On a busy Friday in August, this could be the recipe for a road accident - slippery roads, tourists, angry drivers...
As always, our only route is the Malahat Drive, a twisty, narrow road carved into the side of cliffs.
The clouds were low, and you can't even see the giant mountain right in front of us. Mt. Finlayson, where are you?
The clouds were low, and you can't even see the giant mountain right in front of us. Mt. Finlayson, where are you?
We're going 80kmh, pretty fast!
I have absolute confidence in L's driving - it's the other vehicles I worry about. I do not like big trucks.
I have absolute confidence in L's driving - it's the other vehicles I worry about. I do not like big trucks.
We're nearing the top, elevations over 300 meters.
We curated 8 albums for the road trip, so we're singing and chatting as we drive.
We curated 8 albums for the road trip, so we're singing and chatting as we drive.
That's the summit lookout (for tourists!).
Nothing to see on this day!
You can barely see Sidney and the Saanich Peninsula on the other side of Finlayson Arm.
This is where we were last weekend - John Dean Park is down there. You know I love taking pictures of bridges.
It was all a blur of rain, trees and road for over 3 hours. Traffic was heavy - it took us 45 minutes to get through Courtenay and get to the ferry docks.
It was all a blur of rain, trees and road for over 3 hours. Traffic was heavy - it took us 45 minutes to get through Courtenay and get to the ferry docks.
We were glad to have a reservation! We picked up Subway in Courtenay and ate it in the car while we waited an hour for departure.
Me and L, sitting in a corner.
We listen to music and read for the 1 hour, 15 minute crossing to the mainland from Vancouver Island.
The ferry filled up - they had to leave people behind to wait for the next sailing in 3 hours. So busy!
Me and L, sitting in a corner.
We listen to music and read for the 1 hour, 15 minute crossing to the mainland from Vancouver Island.
I spied the Texada Island ferry in the distance.
You can see that it's still stormy this far north. That's very choppy water.
Our trip was bumpy and the ferry swayed from side to side.
Bits of blue sky behind us. When I booked our hotel and ferry resos back in April, I tried for our favourite spa suite on the main drag, but it was full already, so we opted for the PR Town Centre Hotel, where we've stayed dozens of times. There aren't a lot of hotel options there, and we hadn't realized it was Blackberry Festival this weekend. We passed on that but saw the streets and crowds on the way from the ferry.
A very "Shining"-esque hallway!
We popped over to Louise's place to have her open her birthday gifts from us.
She loved her flower and butterfly socks, and snarfed down most of the bag of cookies we bought for her. L and I had a quick Noodle Box dinner, and then drove over to pal Kelly's house - he broke his ankle and isn't mobile, so it was a pleasure to hang out and chat and visit his cats, especially old Jonesy (named after the cat in "Alien" of course).
I got to give Jonesy a tube of kitty treats, which he loved. Good to see you, Kel!
I got to give Jonesy a tube of kitty treats, which he loved. Good to see you, Kel!
We hung out in our hotel room in the evening, having stocked ourselves with snacks and drinks. Hotel TV is always wild - we watched "Hogan's Heroes"!
On Saturday, we were up early to meet up with L's older brother Virgil for breakfast. My next outfit incarnation featured my Marimekko tee for a more classic look (I also slept in it that night). I wore sparkly "Flower Power" socks, good for the tons of walking I did that day.
On Saturday, we were up early to meet up with L's older brother Virgil for breakfast. My next outfit incarnation featured my Marimekko tee for a more classic look (I also slept in it that night). I wore sparkly "Flower Power" socks, good for the tons of walking I did that day.
We discovered Vlad had found a girlfriend overnight.
A very pretty rosy-pink Mustang. I think she likes you, Vlad.
A very pretty rosy-pink Mustang. I think she likes you, Vlad.
L dropped me off back at the hotel to head off and do his really-not-fun-and-very-stressful family stuff.
Me? I walked to the main street - Marine - and helped myself to ripe blackberries along the way. Yum!
Me? I walked to the main street - Marine - and helped myself to ripe blackberries along the way. Yum!
Stores come and go, but I can always rely on Willow Rose Boutique. I had a poke around Madrona thrift as well, but nothing caught my eye.
What a lovely view! The weather was mixed with sprinklings of rain, but the wind had eased up and I wasn't cold.
After my shop - which I'll show you shortly - I walked back along Marine.
Bustling downtown Powell River. You're always two blocks from wilderness. On my way back to the hotel after a full 4 hours of walking and shopping, I passed by the tourist centre and took a selfie with this bear.
Hello!
Hello!
Back in the hotel room, I took pictures of all my loot that I found. From Willow Rose Boutique - a consignment shop - I bought five items.
This purse is NOT pink - it's neon orange, and didn't want to photograph properly in the room's lighting. Bright orange!
This purse is NOT pink - it's neon orange, and didn't want to photograph properly in the room's lighting. Bright orange!
A nice hanging element - a bronze key stamped "Fossil".
All good branding inside, including a main metal YKK zipper.
Hard to see, but the content tag does verify that it's leather. This was marked down to $20.00. It also has an external slit pocket - perfect for my phone. Although I already have an orange purse (my nylon puffy woven one), it is only one pouch. I appreciate pockets in my bags too!
Hard to see, but the content tag does verify that it's leather. This was marked down to $20.00. It also has an external slit pocket - perfect for my phone. Although I already have an orange purse (my nylon puffy woven one), it is only one pouch. I appreciate pockets in my bags too!
I also spied these lavender pearl earrings.
They were $15.00, and have stamps/marks on them, but they are too small even for my eagle eyes to read.
They were $15.00, and have stamps/marks on them, but they are too small even for my eagle eyes to read.
I hung these pants in the room's hall closet - they are flowy, drapey velvet.
Wide legs, amazing print!
Wide legs, amazing print!
Pockets on the front, belt loops and single pleat.
There are two top buttons, and the zipper is heavy metal.
The back has two pockets.
They are real pockets, but I'm not going to open them, as they aren't very functional. I see a butterfly amidst the flowers on the lower right. Blurry, sorry, but you can see that they are by Anthropologie.
They took all the tags off when I bought them, but these pants were New With Tags - there was a ton of NWT Anthro there, like someone ordered it all online and then never wore it. I paid $89.00 for these awesome pants - the original retail was over $269.00!
When I shop consignment, I always look for neutrals that are good quality.
They took all the tags off when I bought them, but these pants were New With Tags - there was a ton of NWT Anthro there, like someone ordered it all online and then never wore it. I paid $89.00 for these awesome pants - the original retail was over $269.00!
When I shop consignment, I always look for neutrals that are good quality.
I really liked this cream top - it has knit trim at the neck, hem and sleeves.
Only one of the sleeves still is tacked down - I'll have to do a couple of quick stitches on the other sleeve once it's been washed.
It has a couple of light spots on the front that came right out with a squirt of Folex.
It's 100% Tencel-lyocell and made in the USA!
Tencel is a brand name - their lyocell is a plant-based and environmentally far less harmful textile than many artificial ones. It's very soft and very strong too. I hadn't heard of the brand Bella Dahl, but made in the USA usually means that this is higher quality. Look at the stitching on that neckband, below.
They don't make this style anymore, but similar short-sleeved tops in this fabric are over $200.00. I paid $18.00 for this.
The final thing I bought at Willow Rose was this taupe-y/olive maxi skirt. It was another pricey item, but I really fell in love with the fit and flow of it - it sits low on the waist and is very VERY swooshy.
I like the low-slung belt-loops - I might thread a hip belt through them.
It has pockets! If I was feeling any kind of waffling over it, that sealed it.
I like the eyelets sprinkled here and there.
They don't make this style anymore, but similar short-sleeved tops in this fabric are over $200.00. I paid $18.00 for this.
The final thing I bought at Willow Rose was this taupe-y/olive maxi skirt. It was another pricey item, but I really fell in love with the fit and flow of it - it sits low on the waist and is very VERY swooshy.
I like the low-slung belt-loops - I might thread a hip belt through them.
It has pockets! If I was feeling any kind of waffling over it, that sealed it.
I like the eyelets sprinkled here and there.
It's fully lined and I was thrilled to see that it's 100% silk. Wow!
Apparently, I should only iron (lightly!) or dry-clean it, but I'll be hand-washing it as needed.
I knew that the $99.00 I paid was high, but Essentiel Antwerp is not a cheap brand. Their skirts start at $300!
I have zero regrets...and I brought all the cash I'd saved from my closet sales with me as my spending budget. I was completely happy with this splurge - that's what that cash is for! I stopped in at local boutique The Knack, where I noticed they had a "secondhand" rack (I gathered that this is for items that were returned but were worn), and this called to me.
Hee hee, another bustier! This is faux leather, all lined, and has a side zip.
Hee hee, another bustier! This is faux leather, all lined, and has a side zip.
It's by Gentle Fawn, a Vancouver company, and was only $25.00.
It's called the Anika and retailed for $68.00. I plan on wearing it over other tops!
My last stop was a strip of true thrift stores, further out of town. Most of them were closed (on a Saturday in August, go figure), but I had a quick cruise through a furniture shop where I found a present for L. It's a CD rack, holds 50 CDs.
"I'm going to get some big Spousal Karma for this," I said to the proprietor, as I handed over my cash. As predicted, L was thrilled.
We had a family dinner at local restaurant Snickers (a mix of Greek, with Indian and pizza), with Louise, her friend Dave, Virg and L and I. From there, L had a visit with his mom while I hung out in the hotel room - we watched more Hotel TV (the movie "Great Blue Sea") and then crashed.
We were up early (6am) to catch the first ferry home. Long sleeves and white socks for my final outfit.
Pre-coffee face! I need coffee!We sat in the ferry waiting lot for over an hour - it had some delays, but eventually made it over to the mainland.
It was packed again (thank goodness for reservations), and we spent the entire trip standing in line to get our Sunshine Breakfasts. By the time we finished eating, it was time to go back to Vlad, ready for the next leg of our trip.
We drove into Courtenay.
And turned off to visit my brother Dave and his fiancée Shelley.
I admired the pears on their tree.
Yum! Me and Dave, my younger brother by 2 years and 3 months.
He made us fancy coffees (thank you!), and we hung out and chatted and laughed for a little over an hour.
He made us fancy coffees (thank you!), and we hung out and chatted and laughed for a little over an hour.
Me and Shelley.
So good to see you both!
From there, we took the Old Island Highway down the east coast of Vancouver Island, all the way to Qualicum and Parksville, the area where my aunt and uncle live.
This route is right at water level - the Oceanside Route proclaims the signs. We met up with Brent and Lois at Extreme Eatery - they got there early, so we were able to get our table almost as soon as we arrived.
Aw, you kids just don't age! Thanks for meeting up with us!
Aw, you kids just don't age! Thanks for meeting up with us!
We had yummy burgers and I treated myself to onion rings (nom nom).
The rest of the trip down-Island was a blur of trees, music and decompressing from all the family stuff. Much as we love them, family is exhausting. Here are some of the odds and ends of things I thought were interesting along the way.
Me and bridges!
This was a lovely break and the sun even came out!
I laughed at this sign in the washroom.
Hee!
The rest of the trip down-Island was a blur of trees, music and decompressing from all the family stuff. Much as we love them, family is exhausting. Here are some of the odds and ends of things I thought were interesting along the way.
Me and bridges!
This fiberglass horse is always dressed up on the side of the highway, near Nanaimo.
She's wearing a small firefighter's hat, some rope? and a neon vest, and yes, that is a Stihl chainsaw. Huh.
There was a plethora of vintage cars that we passed (of course we did) in the final two hours.
A Pontiac and a Ford with Shelby Cobra kit trimmings.
This is the same Pontiac as above.
Cherry red! It's hard taking pictures when you're zipping along at 120kmh.I was really happy not to have pouring rain again.
We really needed it for all the forest fires, though. I'm never complaining about rain!
A cool piece of wall decoration as we crawled through town on the way home.
I like this kind of street art!We arrived home...to silence. This is our first time being away and not coming home to Vizzini, which was utterly sad. It felt weird not to have to do the key swap thing with Ross, and prepare for his visits, but most of all, not to be greeted by a fuzzy face needing cuddles when we walked in the door. Aw...
But our teenage seagulls are nearly grown, and were out on the neighbouring rooftop.Thanks for reading! I hope you enjoyed our weekend jaunt! I took Monday off work (writing takes a long time!) so now I'm off to spend the waning hours with L.
This family stuff can be grueling! Glad you got some nature time and a very productive shop (I adore Essentiel Antwerp and never see it on the secondary market—what a coup) to soften the rough edges.
ReplyDeleteIt is...it's important and necessary to do, but both L and I missed our low-key weekend time. I know, I rarely see Essentiel Antwerp - excited to wear that skirt!
DeleteHi dear Sheila! It’s I, Karen, from Willow Rose. I was sooo sorry to miss you— love our chats & the fun you have shopping! I am not been there as often, dealing with family & health stuff— as I can see you’ve been as well. I love the pic of your mom in law & her cool outfit 🙂 Just wanted to tell you that yes, I have several Anthro shoppers, including myself. I have another consigner who lovvves Anthro & she, like me, buys a lot that just doesn’t work. The skirt you purchased, is straight from Belgium. One of our consigners is from there & brings us very unique pieces. She brought in some cool belts, that went very quickly. I hope to be over to Sooke in October. We may be able to connect then. I would really like to see some of your favorite places to shop. 🦋
DeleteHi, Karen! Great to hear from you - I was sorry to miss you on this trip. How cool to know that about the skirt, thank you! Drop me a line (my email is in my profile here), and would love to see you in October, but it will depend on my schedule, which is filling up fast.
DeleteI somehow believe that you will be busy 🙂 Every time I am travelling, my time fills up way too quickly. I have to figure out dates, then will let you know 🌼
DeleteThanks for sharing Sheila! Your travel dressing is so cool. I love how you multi-task your pieces.
ReplyDeleteOops it is Lise!
DeleteThanks so much, Lise! Glad you enjoyed it. It is much easier for me to just wear the same stuff over and over - no one realizes when I'm traveling, and unless you read my blog or Substack, you would have no clue!
DeleteYay for long vacations, good second-hand hauls, and for you two (especially L) visiting Louise. Decluttering is never easy, be it your own or someone else's, and it is often more draining when it involves a parent who is dealing with declining cognitive abilities.
ReplyDeleteChuckling because it feels like I've taken this up-island drive with you multiple times, especially given that I've also driven it once with family! I know the road! As for your hauls, oh my gosh, I've caught the Sheila styling bug! Every piece, including the bag and earrings, can be utilized in varying groupings to create multiple outfits. The only item I'd add is a long sleeve top, then you have a travel capsule!
Cheers, Laurie
Aside from my shopping day (very grateful to have carved that out), it was not much vacation, Laurie. Travel is always very stressful, as is seeing family. It's tough on L and his brother to see their mom declining.
DeleteYou have!! I've been recording these for well over 10 years, and I tend to take pictures of the same viewpoints over and over.
I know, right? So much good stuff, and I have ideas for all of it. I need to spend some time playing around and getting everything lined up to show it to its best. You're right, it's nearly its own capsule!
What a fun weekend. So many great pictures.. and look at all those awesome finds!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Hena!
DeleteI guessed that you were off to Powell River! Gold star for me then :-)
ReplyDeleteAs always, I loved accompanying you on your travels, and admire your ability to travel light, which I fully admit is not my forte!
I'm loving your finds, especially those Anthropologie trousers and the Essentiel Antwerp skirt. It never ceases to amaze me that you keep finding second-hand Essentiel Antwerp items in your part of the world!
Totally get that coming home to silence was utterly sad. Will you be adopting another feline companion at some point? xxx
You know you've been friends a long time when...you know my annual trips! Glad you enjoyed it, Ann! Even with the car, there isn't a lot of room in a Jaguar convertible! No backseat, and minimal trunk space.
DeleteI am very excited about both of those items too! I know, I almost never see Essentiel Antwerp, even at Turnabout - it's so rare!
Yes, we've decided to get a pair of kittens - I have one round of kittens left in me, I think. Hopefully soon!
I am always in awe of your travelling light esp when in a car! I load up!
ReplyDeleteLove the combo of blue cargo skirt and orange hoodie! Looks great!
Lovely you saw family. I can understand the exhausted feeling!
I had the same when with family last week.
Mmm, pears... I Scrumped a fresh fig of f a loaded tree earlier and feel a bit guilty!
I like the new grey skirt. I had a similar one from Long Tall Sally!
As I noted to Ann above, our car's a convertible, and doesn't have a lot of extra space. Not like I could throw stuff in the back seat - there isn't one!
DeleteThank you! All the comments I got on my outfit were about my colours.
Yup, family is exhausting, even fun visits like with my brother and aunt/uncle.
One of my coworkers is going to bring me a bunch of figs - I can't wait to roast them up for snacking!
Yes, this style of skirt was HUGE in the early 00s. I have had a few similar ones.
That's a great idea to help with decluttering. It can be a daunting task even for a young and healthy person sometimes, and I imagine help is always appreciated. Very nice of you both to visit L's mom to help her.
ReplyDeleteI love your casual outfits, and seeing what you packed.
The combo of sneakers, blue skirt, t-shirt and that fabulous orange hoodie works perfectly. The hoodie does a great job of being a jacket...and I liked it with every combo.
Packing light makes life easier---and saves on space.
It's good you managed to do some shopping. Very nice finds, too.
For a second, I though the horse war real and wondered what it was wearing and why.
Thanks, Ivana! I did nothing on the decluttering - L pushed to make it just his immediate family (I was happily surprised by this).
DeleteHa, I wondered if the horse would fool anyone!